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Friday, August 17, 2007

Hitting Two Birds With One Stone

I'm sincere. I'm not plastic. If you feel that I do not like you, you might be right. You might have done something/many things for me not to like you. Go figure.

TRUST is very important to me. Break it and I will easily forget that you ever existed just in one snap.

I apologize for being fiery here. I obviously write for a certain target audience and if what I write offends you, just stop reading.

A Guide On Being "REAL":

1. I hate pretentious people. NEVER EVER act or pretend to be someone YOU ARE NOT! You will surely look so TRYING HARD and people can see. *they will just laugh at you, blimey!*

2. STOP living in other people’s shadow. For Pete’s sake, have your own identity! Be original. Each one of us is unique. You just have to know yourself COMPLETELY to be able to express the REAL YOU.

3. They say one person copying the other is a HIGH FORM OF ADORATION. It is flattering to some, but otherwise to many (including me). Eeeeeek! Clone, clone, clone!

When I say “copying” it is in the form of actions, (read: mannerisms), words, (read: the way you talk) the way you look/dress, personal stuffs, (example: her secret perfume for years that you found out or her brand/style of brassiere, [read: you are desperate!] perhaps her body scrub that one time or many times you used without her knowing) [you are hopeless!] “the works” rolled into one.

4. Copying people obviously means YOU DON’T LIKE YOURSELF. Unless you are an impersonator by profession. (read: Michael V, Jon Santos to name a few)

5. STOP making stories just to PLEASE and IMPRESS people. GOTCHA! *tsktsktsk* People around you already discovered your tactics. You wouldn’t want to know how they are taking it. *big grin*

6. You have to appreciate/love yourself first before you can love others. Know yourself more.

7. Expand your horizons and explore possibilities. You need it. Try reading some good books. It will be a big help.

To the first bird, I wish you well, dahlin’. If I see improvements on you, I will give you a smile.

Now you second bird, you gotta find yourself *far far far away (from me, please)*. God bless you and your family.

As I sleep tonight, I pray that this strong feeling of annoyance will pass together with this day. While our calendar changes for the next day (which is tomorrow) I promise to have sweeter smiles for people around me.

P.S. I don't owe anybody any explanation. Nobody can dictate me who to be friends with or even question me for that matter. This is my choice. If ever I am friends with your #1 enemy, why fret? It has nothing to do with "us", anyway.


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