Lacoste

My Lacoste Club discount card expired last July 2007. I had it renewed and after waiting finally, it’s with me now.


That’s 10% and 6% discount on cash and card respectively. To be able to apply for one, you have to accumulate P50,000 worth of Lacoste product receipts for a duration of a year. That was before. Come 2007, they added P20,000 more. That will make a whooping P70,000! I don’t understand why they have to change the rule. *sigh* I’m lucky I was able to get hold of one earlier.

Friends, I’m not selfish I can share this privilege to you. Just let me know in advance and I can lend you my card but with a promise to return and take care of it. *wink*

TGIS!

It’s Saturday, bonding time with my dear Xave. Lately, I’ve been noticing that he is getting extremely patient on me. Well, he is actually patient but he is extraordinary tolerant now! *do you know what I’m saying?* Hmm, he drives me anywhere, do my bank stuffs and waits for me for long hours. He never argues with me on things I like to do. Those people who know me very well can say how impulsive I can get most of the times if not all the time. *hahaha* If I think of something to do or perhaps somewhere to go, I want to do it right at that instance. Normally, we argue on that but recently he is becoming overly generous and I barely hear him complain. *teehee* Ok, I’m raving non-stop.

I went to Susan of Symmetria Salon to have my hair done and it usually takes 2 hours for me to finish and he decided to wait for me whilst hanging around Theater Mall. No moan or any protest. *heehee* He left me with a smile and picked me up with a bigger smile. *haha* Strange, isn’t it? Of course not, my man is heaven-sent! Loving him more and more each day. Ok, I’m getting cheesy here now. Nay!

Moving on, yesterday Xave and I were in Serendra to check out All Flip Flops and Crocs. I couldn’t resist leaving empty-handed. I got a pair of Prima Crocs in Gold with violet crystal Jibbitz.

Excited, I used it during Fernwood wedding fair, which later on caused me blisters at the back of my feet. Ouch! I hate the feeling and how it might look after. I don’t like any ugly dark marks on my feet.

So today, I asked Xave to try to have it replaced to a bigger size. Upon entering the Crocs’ door, whilst holding the plastic bag with my Prima and receipt inside he uttered the words “I want to have this replaced to size 5”. The SA gladly assisted him and without checking my Prima’s condition (if it’s used or whatever), Viola! he immediately replaced it. After 2 minutes or less, Xave was walking towards the car (I didn’t go down) and handed me my new pair. Geez, I’m sure that is not allowed in any other shoe shops here in Philippines. Should I think Crocs have this special policy for returned goods?

Maybe, because they’ve changed my receipt to this thing called return slip that indicated the particulars of what was returned and replaced. I like that! Having that slip made me think that they practice special policies for returns/replacements that is customer-centric. Oh, I also remember Daphne Osena Paez’ experience when her daughter’s Crocs was eaten by an escalator in a Makati mall and the top portion was ripped off! I believe Crocs replaced it with a new pair for FREE.

For those who are afraid to try Crocs, give it a shot. Crocs are really comfy and have a wide variety of styles and colors to choose from. Just pick your choice.

Fernwood Gardens

As planned, Xave and I graced the grand food tasting of Josiah’s Catering in Fernwood Gardens. Xave’s parents where there with Amae sans my family as they are based in the province and decided not to go anymore. Anyway, Xave and I are the ones making most of the decisions if not all. We invited Tricia & Mario and Maita & Robert to us join us. It's nice to share this experience with people very close to our hearts. They are the perfect people to be with us, very supportive and sincerely happy for us. And incase we need some help especially in choosing suppliers their presence is a big relief.

Robert & Maita

Mario & Tricia

So, what did we get?

Of course, our main priority --- venue and church. It’s now official, we got and Fernbrook Gardens March 29, 2008 Saturday 4PM has been blocked off for us. We got 10% discount for paying in full. The discount is very significant.

Xave and I are such camwhores! *hahaha* And we wanted to make sure we get excellent pictures on our pre-nup pictorial and wedding day.

Here’s Xave happily closing the deal with Smart Shot (Lito Genilo)

It’s amazing how generous he can be. We got the best deal more than what they offered when we visited their studio few days ago.

Josiah’s Catering literally rocked our world! *hahaha* She gave us a jaw dropping deal that even Robert and Maita find it unbelievable. (Josiah’s was their caterer, too.) For couples that really have plans to get suppliers, wait for wedding fairs --- best time do book them. Make on-the-spot bookings and you will save a lot!

On top of the hot buffet, we’ll have desert bar with chocolate fountain. For those who want to take coffee after a hearty meal, we’ll have coffee bar in one corner. If you want some booze, we’ll have a cocktail bar that will serve tequila sunrise, flaming shooters, slammers and other mixed drinks. Sounds exciting? Yes, and I wish to taste ‘em all which I doubt will happen. I remember I starved myself when I had my debut, I just couldn’t eat and got butterflies in my stomach. *hahaha*

Well, that's it for now. *wink*

P.S. Today is our 9 years and 6 months anniversary! *smiles* And I thought it would be nice to put this picture of us with the swans. *heehee* Picture taken by Robert.

Goodnight! ☺☺☺

Overjoyed

For the whole day, Xave and I were infront of our computers surfing stuffs we need for the wedding. He’s been browsing for his wedding ring, shoes and some AVPs whilst I’m drafting the guest list, which I feel, is the hardest part! And we haven’t started our entourage and assignments list yet. We need to sit down and talk about it more in detail because we need to compromise. *smiles*

Xave is extremely overjoyed and he’s been sleep talking for days now! *hahaha* It’s priceless to see him extra happy. Last night, he was telling me how excited he is and his friends for him. I’m receiving the same reactions from my friends, too. Our parents can’t wait for the big day as well. I’m exultant!

I’m enjoying the planning/preparation part.

Some Updates

What a busy week!

I have 4 days left and I’m going back to the world I really belong (until when? *heehee*). I don’t want to complain, as I’m excited with my new job. But I’m more thrilled in my wedding preparations. Umm, it’s starting to sink in now. *heehee*

We were so productive yesterday. Aside from going to Baclaran, Xave and I finally had time to visit our derma. Who by the way we plan to get as our Ninang. I had my usual facial whilst Xave had his diamond peel. (read: vain!!!) We also went to see works of 2 photographers, Megapixels that was recommended by Robert & Maita and Lito Genilo of Smart Shot. We plan to see Wally Gonzales, too however we are very much satisfied with Lito Genilo already. We find his pictures youthful and vibrant and we like that approach. We don’t want to look so stiff and serious in our wedding pictures and video. It’s not so Xave and me, right? We wanted it to be “us/ourselves” as natural as possible.

Along the way, we get to learn stuffs. First off, is to prioritize 3 things --- (1) venue/church (2) photographer/videographer (3) rings. After the celebration, we would be left with our rings and pictures/video to remind us of our union/coming together as one so we decided to make it the greatest if not the grandest. Pictures/video go hand in hand with venue. It’s a challenge to achieve wonderful and breathtaking pictures with a venue full of walls! We plan to finalize 1 and 2 before the week ends and that means we have to make payments. *heehee*

Today, Xave got the confirmation and blessings from his parents and as I write this he is having some drinks with his neighbor friends to celebrate this day. *haha* Or maybe that’s only his excuse after being sick for a couple of days. Hmm… he deserve it, anyway.

On Friday, we will go to the Grand Food Tasting of Josiah’s in Fernwood and hopefully do ocular in Fernbrook the next day. Xave has yet to choose his ring. See, he is choosier than me. I’m glad I have Mommy to take care of our rings. *yipeeee!* I trust her in all things most especially in jewelry as she has good taste.

More things to do and we don’t want to stress ourselves with too much thinking and worrying. We are taking things based on our priorities, one at a time. We wanted to enjoy this moment, as this stage will only happen once in our lifetime. I know, I’ve been saying this line over and over but as I always say, I was born to experience life! *smiles* I don’t wanna waste time ranting and whining over things that I couldn’t change more so, on things that cannot be changed at all.

Enjoy the beauty of life! ☺☺☺

For Jojie

Jojie, this post is for you. ☺

Here are the bags in Rockwell your friend is telling you.

Obviously, they're are not Anya Hindmarch’s I’m Not A Plastic Bag. But they're nice alternatives instead of patronizing the gazillion fakes out there. I think they're locally made or maybe they’re the Pinoy version of Anya’s I’m Not A Plastic Bag. *smiles*

Available in Archaeology Powerplant. Haven’t seen one yet and I don’t know how much each costs.

Ta-dah!

Most of the time, things happen when you least expect them. On the other hand, sometimes it has to be at right time at the right place and to the right people.

I’m not the typical lady who dreams of having an extravagant debut or wedding for that matter. When I turned 18, Mommy asked me to choose between a debut party and a shopping spree in Hongkong. I chose the latter. Then one day, I was engulfing with a number of gown sketches given by my Mom's designer. I knew it! Mommy opted to have a party instead of what I wished to have. Oh well, “mothers know best” so I did agree. Being the only daughter in our family, I thought Mommy would really love to throw me a party. She just loves dresses, being with people and giving me the best of the best. She did all the preparations from my cotillion de honor, escort, gowns/cocktail dresses, down to the very detail. My only participation was to be at the party which I did enjoy very much. *heehee* All ladies deserve to have a debut party because to be 18 will only happen once in our lifetime.

They say, wedding is a dream of every single woman just like a debut for every teenager. I don't agree or maybe it hasn't sinked in on me yet...

A lot of times, Xave talks to me about my two dreaded words --- wedding and marriage. I tried to avoid many times for some reasons --- I don’t even know if we’ll end up together to begin with and I wasn't that sure yet that he's THE ONE, which is NORMAL! Being together (short or long time) doesn't guarantee anybody of anything. If it's not meant, it will not happen. Well, that's how I view life and relationships. Then, people started asking me/us on when are we tying the knot. It’s the most used and abused question and it’s annoying, really! Imagine, we’ve been together for almost 10 years now and I’ve been hearing this question for the longest time already. Haha.

Now, hopefully this will end all the curiosity of people and my friends. *heehee* *drum rolling*

I’m getting married! ☺☺☺

When: moved to March 29, 2008 (Saturday)
Where: Fernbrook Gardens (www.fernbrookgardens.com)

March 28, 2008 is a milestone for Xave and myself. That’s our 10th year anniversary! *whew* That falls on a Friday which means traffic so we decided to do it on 29th instead.

God is indeed so good! He really made sure both parties are ready before they take the plunge and vow in His presence. God prepared Xave the same way He did to me. Perfect!

I made the first announcement here and I will do updates on this site as well. So people, watch this space! *wink*

There are so many things to do so little time. We are just on our first step --- date and venue. We have a long way to go…Honestly, I’m not good in planning; Xave does it better and with feelings! Haha. I guess he’ll be more hands-on during the preparations. He is more meticulous than me.

Hmm, we need a wedding planner…

Well, that’s it for now. *wink* I better get going I need to check out some more suppliers. This wedding directory we got yesterday at the wedding fair is helping me big time!

It’s Sunday, go to mass. ☺

Things to Do

Oh no, I have barely 10 days left!

I better make the most out of this time to do stuffs that I fear I might not be able to do when I start functioning. Haha.

Things to do:

1. have my hair done

When I got crazy with short-styled hair during college to early yuppy days, I was a loyal fan of Salon Manila in Makati. They’re stylists are very skilled not only in cutting hair but also in coloring --- highlights and lowlights. I used to pay 250 pesos, I think…for the haircut alone that was more than 10 years ago, pricey! Oftentimes, my bill would more or less total to 3,000 pesos when I have treatment and colors. Thinking back, it makes me wonder how I was able to afford that when I was still in school. Haha.

Now, I go to Susan of Symmetria Connecticut in Greenhills everytime my hair would need some tender lovin’ care (TLC). She’s been taking care of my tresses since I decided to grow it long. She’s good at it, really! *smiles* My haircut alone costs 850 pesos. Oh, all prices seem to rapidly go up!

I saw this salon in Eastwood (I forgot the name). Haircut costs more or less 250 pesos only! Wow! That’s already a good deal, isn’t it? I just don’t want to take the risk of switching, as I’m already comfortable with Susan. She knows my hair very well. I just seat on her chair and immediately she becomes my boss. She also does my make up for special occasions. She is for keeps!

2. have my facial (its been long over due!)

My dermatologist is Dra. Glenise Javeloso. Her clinic is located in Marikina (near home) and all I can say are good praises about her. She’s like a family to me, very approachable. Not the typical doctors that are strictly on business. My derma is actually like a friend. You can call and talk to her anytime and she knows how to connect with her patients. That’s very important for me. I have referred most of my friends to her including Xave. I got to know her though a former friend *haha* which I’d rather forget. Well, that’s another story! *wink*

3. have my driver’s license renewed

This has been long overdue! I have so many free time but I just feel so lazy to go to LTO. Anyway, Xave is always driving for me so I thought there’s no reason to rush. But now that I’m going back to work, having it renewed is on my top list for next week.

4. dig up my closet for my office clothes and maybe do some updating, too! (shopping!)

5. spend QT with Xave and my Macbook *wink*

Again, I have to go now as Xave and I will be raiding some shops. *heehehe*

Happy Weekend! ☺

Sealed with a Kiss

Just had to do a super quick post!

It was a long day for me, my head is killing me and I my legs are swollen. I apologize for whining again, I just need to retire earlier as I’ve been out for more than 12 hours now. I need to get away from this super headache. It’s annoying!

Ok, I know I have to keep my promise. Here's the gist.

I did sign the contract and sealed it with a kiss! *heehee* Seriously, I’m back to the corporate world. However, so different from my previous experiences. I’d be working for a distributor and not a vendor this time. This company is not so new to me anymore as I’m a frequent there since day one when I acquired my Mac. *ding ding ding* Does it ring a bell? Nah? Hmm, I will give you more hints. This company carries various products --- Apple computers/notebooks, iPod, Palm, iPaq, Linksys, Cisco, 3Com, Belkin, Covertec, Griffin, Bose, Lexar, iHome, etc. This is a give away! Ok, it’s Microwarehouse. *smiles*

I’d be taking care of the Cisco business as a Sales Manager (cough! i don't know why they'd think i'll do good in this, haha!). I will have more or less 5 people in my team (a product manager and 3-4 key account managers). BTW, I would need 2 more people to work with us. Yes, we are hiring. So, incase you are interested and wanted to explore (and you must be good, don’t give me stress please…just kidding!) email me your CV. I need aggressive people in our team. *wink*

I’ll start on the 1st of October. Wish me luck people. *mwah*

I have to end this post now. Goodnight peeps!

Zzz.zzz...

Deal or No Deal?

God is so good, all the time.

Everything seems to happen at the right place and time and indeed so fast!

I thought I have until tomorrow to decide but sometimes things happen at the most unexpected time. After a couple of meetings and some negotiations, at last the verdict has come to an end and it’s a DEAL! ☺

Yep, you read it right and clear. Yes, I am going back to work. Finally, after being bum for like 8 months (oh gawd, I’m rusty!). Yup, I accepted the offer after doing some “call a friend” and a little negotiation with the banker. *heehee* Now, I’m keyed up! *teehee* Tomorrow, would be my contract signing. *beams*

I will share more details tomorrow, promise. *wink*

Decision

My head is too heavy! I’m doing a lot of thinking lately. I always find it challenging to come up on a decision for myself. It’s much easier to advise others, hardest to apply on oneself. Argh! Headache.

Why can’t I come up with one? Hmm, let me do a run down on some of the reasons why I feel like this.

Maybe…

1. I’m scared of making a wrong one
2. I fear that something better might come up after I make a choice
3. I’m in a Virgo mode --- perfectionist, meticulous, fussy, worrier…
4. I want more options as much as possible

Having said all this, I’m still left with no other choice but to make a decision before the week ends. *faints*

If it’s meant, it will happen. I asked Him to take charge.

P.S. My gut feel is extraordinary strong today. Early this morning, this company gave me a ring and I had a discussion with them in the afternoon. At the back of my mind, I feel this is what God wants me to pursue. Hmm, part of me wants to think otherwise. As I don't want to expect much.

It's Tuesday...

…and it’s Baclaran day! Call time was 10pm and everybody was late. So, Xave and I decided to go ahead inside.

Visiting Baclaran makes me feel in tranquil and calm. It’s nice to pray with no disturbance, crying babies and kids running around. I did get the concentration and connection I wanted.

I don’t want to share what my prayers are as that would be too much for me to do. *smiles* I’d still want keep some for myself. *wink*

Hmm, I don’t normally ask for specific things in my prayers as He might give it to me because I prayed for it even if it’s NOT meant for me. I don’t like that. I just let Him do whatever plans he has for me and I’d accept with open arms --- may it be good or not so good. That’s life! I strongly believe that He won’t give problems or situations that I couldn’t handle.

I don’t normally pray for myself. All my prayers are always for people I love and dear to me…or those who have hurt me in one way or the other. Myself tends to be always the last one. It’s ok, though.

This girl needs an eye shut. Good night people! ☺☺☺

Samsung TSE

Samsung is very close to my heart. I’ve learned a lot during the days I was working for them. I met a lot of people/colleagues from different subsidiaries and until now, I’m still in touched with some of them. It saddened me to leave but it was a choice I made, no regrets.

This news, “Samsung Executives Arrested In Thailand” broke my heart. Click here to read the story.

Above: Samsung Thailand's (TSE) General Manager (GM) and Managing Director (MD), Mr. Kim and Mr. Park

I was able to meet TSE's MD, Mr. Park (in dark suit in the above photo) 2 years back in Singapore during a big Printer conference. All Samsung SEA joined the meeting with their respective MDs. I represented Samsung Printer Philippines and I was with our MD (CEO/President), Mr. Shim and VP, Mr. Bae.

I wouldn’t forget Mr.Park because he interrogated me and Mr.Bae during my Printer presentation. I introduced a promotion named Samsung Printer “Switch”. It’s a trade in, trade up promo wherein you get to trade in (switch) your old printer (working or not working) to a new Samsung Printer for half the price. Cool isn’t?

He couldn’t believe small country like Philippines would be able to afford running that kind of big promotion. Take note, it was their first time to hear such kind of promo *haha* and true enough it entails a lot of money to execute it. Imagine, half the price??? w/o me sacrificing my margin! Geez! (oh, they didn’t know that margin part…) Their jaw might drop had I shared my strategies. *nyahahaha*

I was proud to respond to his question in full confidence on how I was able to make money for my Printer business. I have my ways *wink* of course in all legal ways. And why would I dare share it to him or to the rest of the people? Mr.Bae backed me up and that made him shut up. *teehee* Oh, I miss Mr.Bae

So, that was my first and last encounter with this person. I just couldn’t believe he got involved in such a mess and even got arrested. *sigh* Hmm, Koreans are really makes big waves all over the world! I just hope he gets himself out of this allegations. That is if proven not guilty.

Source and Image: Channelnewsasia

Who is Cathy Vasquez?

Cathy Vasquez, a college classmate, a friend, a confidante. I can’t remember the last time we saw each other. However, we try our very best to update one another, not regularly though. Despite this, every time we talk (or chat) it’s like yesteryears. Nothing has changed.

CV reminds me of a lot of things most especially during college days. In times that I was lazy (tamad) she used to be my human alarm clock. *haha* She pages me endlessly to remind me of things to do, wake me up and be in school on time. There were times I was so damn sluggish, I couldn’t get out of bed then, our intercom will ring and she’s on the line! Oftentimes, she waits for me in our dorm terrace to personally fetch me so we can go to school together. She will do anything and everything just to bring me to school. *hehe* I'm so thankful to have her as a good friend.

By the way, I used to stay in a girls dormitory (ICLD) just right across our school. I just have to cross the street and I’m there. *smiles* One of the many reasons why I do not know how to ride public transportations (buses and jeepneys). Because I don’t know their destinations. The signages make me confused and scared as they might drop me on the wrong places and I'd be left there wondering how to go back. (stupid eh?) Haha.

On crazy days that I’d be craving for fishballs, I’d cut classes and she would be mad at me and gives me her tiger look! After a few walks, I’d see her at my back and the next thing I knew we’re enjoying our fishballs together (in the gym). Remember those days, Cathy? *giggles*

Every time I hear SM Southmall, I’d remember her. We used to go to Las Pinas for our school group projects and she lives just at the back of SM. Well, I've almost cursed Las Pinas because we used to take buses to go there and doing so makes my stomach go wild! Ridding buses make me dizzy and worst, puke! I get sick with the smell of their bus fresher. I’m so sensitive with fragrance.

CV has a lot of funny stories about her work. The many attempts of leaving the company, which made her receive a number of promotions! Whoa! She never moved from one company to another. She sticks to only one where she can actually get a loyalty award for doing so. *hihihi* Recently, she resigned and what made her do that? LOVE. She is getting married and will soon to be Mrs. Antony (read: antow-ni). Her fiancé is not a foreigner if that’s what you are thinking. 100% Pinoy.

She is now in Singapore with her fiancé.
Above: at the giant durian

Above: view of the Furrlerton Hotel

Lately, she’s been idle (like me) and that made me introduce her to (my) blog. Years back, I’ve known Cathy to be always in the know in terms of gadgets. --- from pager to cellphones. I don’t know what happened to her after we parted ways as she was totally naïve with techonology now *peace Cathy!* Haha. She happened to read some of my posts and she’s in absolute awe. *nyahahaha* It’s alright Cathy, you now have more free time to be connected again with technology. Just be patient. *wink*

Oh, I miss this girl! I miss our good ol’ days…Remember our shoot in Nayong Pilipino? *haha* I wish to spend even one day with you to reminisce all these crazy days we had. One day, I will visit you in Singapore. I love Singapore…Orchard road, Raffles, Ritz. I have good memories of Singapore.

Good luck on your job hunting and wish you and your soon-to-be hubby all the best! *mwah*

Cranky (no more!)

It’s Sunday, airsoft day for Xave whilst I’m home (the entire day) keeping myself busy. I watched Grey’s Anatomy from sun up to sun down. I just stop to eat, pee, shower and blog. I will resume watching after this.

I’m bored and my back is aching. Maybe because of staying in bed for too long. Haha. I need a good massage...it’s been awhile.

Now, I need something to munch and I’m craving for…

- fishballs (after seeing it on TV)
- Lays or Ruffles
- CHOCOLATES (my comfort food, it makes me feel good!)
- Pizza
- Something spicy (peanuts maybe?)
- Subway

I hope Xave brings me one of these. Oh, I’ve been whining today. *sorry* I’m running out of things to do to fight my boredom. Thanks to my computer, she really keeps me company. Seriously, had I not bought her sooner, I’d be frantic! Haha. October is still far. At times, my being low EQ has some benefits. I’m reaping ‘em now! *wink*

Ok, I better end this non-sense as I don’t have nice things to share. Umm, it’s still fine right? Because not all the time I am okay. At least I’m showing you this side of me --- when I crave on something and I don’t have ways to get it *lazy or nobody can do it for me* I tend to be moody a.k.a. sumpong. You know, girl thing…

I’d get over this, I’m sure. *frown*

P.S. Hmm...Do I really have this power of people hearing what I am thinking? *tapping fingers on the palmrest* Xave just brought me a box of Pizza! *smug* And I finished 3 slices! *burp* That made me feel so much better now! See, how shallow I can get? *smiles* Good night peeps! *mwah*

Poll Results #2 (movie vs. music)

Wonder what people prefer between movies and music? I do. That's why I made a poll about it. *heehee* Now, here's the result.

Movies 66%
Music 34%

By the way, I made the voting period shorter for me to be able to come up with new ones hopefully, on a weekly basis.

So, watch out for new polls from time to time, ayt?

Happy Weekend!

Perplexed

I’ve been doing a lot of thinking lately on whether I should be going back to work or not. Then, I’ve realized I am missing the days I was busy as a bee. *heehee* I’m not used on being idle, maybe for some time but not all the time. (I also get tired you know…) It’s hard for me to stay put (in a place) for quite a period of time without doing anything. As much as possible, I avoid the passenger seat because I easily get bored! Either I sleep or eat on the entire travel. *haha* If I had to wait, give me a good book or a magazine then, I’ll be on my own.

I always want myself to be challenged. I don’t know why. Maybe that’s my personality. I know my limitations. I always say that I know myself very well --- my strengths and weaknesses. If I am tasked to do something, I tend to ask too many questions. It’s my way of weighing things on how to approach the chore.

Ok, after having an interview with Mr. President, I learned that my next one would be with Mr. MD. *guffaw* *nail biting* and now, they’re looking at two positions for me (either of the two). The first one is the post they originally opened and the second one is a business unit manager for Cisco. Sounds heavy, yes! As this person will be handling the entire business (w/c is fine with me, I did run the printer and consumable biz in Samsung, too by myself!) however, this one has 5 people to supervise (including the product manager). *slaps forehead* Am I in deep trouble now? *haha* I’m a good follower, and as much as possible I don’t want to be heading anything or anyone for that matter.

Confession: I don’t want people to be dependent or to totally rely on me. I don’t want to drive people. I am better follower than a leader. Why? Maybe because I don’t want rules. Making one will make me sick! *heehee* I want to do things at my own pacing. I don’t want to be hurried by people. I take time seriously but usually depend on my mood. *guffaw*

Having said all this, I can’t deny but feel that something is up for me. *sigh* You know, there have been many things that I hate and fear doing but for some reasons, I faced and embraced them. That’s life! The more I hate ‘em, the more they get into my nerves. Well, I’m speaking based on experience.

Most of the times, God wants us to learn and confront our fears. I do like facing my fears, but I can’t help but be afraid sometimes, which is a very normal feeling. Hey, I am human!

Wish me luck! I hope I’ll make a good choice. If it's meant, it will happen. Just have faith. *whew*

Aftershock

Many are still clamoring to get their paws on Anya Hindmarch's I’m Not A Plastic Bag. It's really amazing how this simple canvas tote can be a phenomenal.

Here are some photos you might want to see.


Above: People in queue at Sainsbury's to get the most coveted Anya's I'm Not A Plastic Bag

Above: It's all over the magazines!

Above: Keira Knightley was spotted around town with her Anya tote

Above: a student receives her handbag from designer Anya Hindmarch at Sainsbury's

Click here for some more pictures and stories. Video, here.

In England, someone’s made an anti-“I’m Not A Plastic Bag” bag and it looks exactly the same but has the words “I’m Not A Smug Twat” on it. Funny isn't it? Hmm, I wonder whether Philippines would come up with its own version. Let's see...

Photo credit: thisislondon.co.uk, alternativeconsumer.com

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Why Blog?

Since I got an iBook, which after a year I sold for a Macbook, I’ve been spending the whole day in front of it stopping only to take a bath, text or eat. A friend and even Xave always tells me that they’d rather go out and look for something fun to do than sit for long hours in front of the computer. But I say otherwise. Sometimes it’s more comforting to just stop, sit and mouse around. I know most of you out there can relate to what I just said.

Why do I blog?

• There are times that I’d rather not use my mouth.

• It’s good to hear err, read what others think about what I think.

• Words written last, while words said are soon forgotten.

• You can edit your thoughts. Whereas when you speak it’s almost impossible to take back what you say.

• Just for the sheer joy of it! I really enjoy putting my thoughts in words so I can go back on them anytime to remind me of what I’ve learned/realized on those days I’ve written them. Or perhaps, what foolish views I had on my not-so-good-crazy days. Haha.
  

So, why not give it a try? *wink*

At Last

At last, the tote I've been wanting is now in my hands...

I got the UK edition (brown). Thanks to Glenda a.k.a. thelvlady in Multiply. She sells guaranteed authentic bags. Yep, costs higher than the released retail price but um, this is my choice. *wink* It's limited edition and I can't find it anywhere. Well, that's the price I had to shell out to get one...*sigh* At the end of the day, I am happy! *smiles* Well, I think that's more important. *heehee*

Enough said. *beams*

P.S. For those who are still on the search of Anya Hindmarch's I'm Not A Plastic Bag, visit this site. It's a good guide on how to tell a fake Anya. People, please don't buy just anywhere. There are a lot of resellers claiming they're bags are original however, some are honest enough to say what they have are good imitations. But still, why buy fake? I don't understand. Anyway, this bag is all over the city and in the internet. Be cautious. As you don't want your money to be put in trash right? Believing that you got a genuine well in fact it's one of those good knock-offs. Careful ladies.

Someone Can Hear Me

Last week, I made a post about an opportunity that I let pass on purpose. If you missed it, click here.

Call this luck, chance, fate, destiny, etc. but I want to name this a blessing. Late last week, I thought of seriously looking for a good job. I didn’t say it out loud *haha* just in my head and maybe some of my posts here (one or two maybe). I’ve also been vocal to Xave about my recent thoughts. After a day, I got a call from a long time friend. To make the story short, I had another interview today. Entirely different from my previous one (remember Ms. Manager? Haha) I don’t know, maybe my mind is so powerful. Whatever I think deeply, it happens. *wink* As if someone is hearing my babbles.

So here’s the story.

I had an interview with Mr. President and Ms. Business Unit Manager. It went out pretty well. I failed to time it for the simple reason that I enjoyed talking to them. *good vibes* I find it a good experience talking to these people. I learn and gain something even in simple conversation like this.

So, some highlights of the meeting --- they are in fact inquisitive on why I left HP and Samsung.

These are strong companies, yes. But I have my reasons and I wish I could just keep them to myself but oftentimes, you just cannot flee and must give a tactful answer which I did. It’s a common knowledge that it’s a NO-NO to say something negative about your previous employers and employees right? I was creative enough to deliver my response in a positive manner. Anyway, I have nothing against these two companies. They’ve been so good to me. It was my choice to leave.

Why leave just like that?

Work is known as being fragile is actually a rubber ball. If something screws up, work will always bounce back. Work is just one aspect of my life. So as much as possible I don’t want to lose myself in work. When I’m in doubt, I just leave.

I work to live, not live to work. There’s a big difference between making a living and having a life. I'm a lifeaholic not a workaholic. Don't get me wrong, I am hardworking (go ask my former colleagues. haha) and I tend to burn myself with work because of being too passionate with my job. Take note, I'm a Virgo --- Perfectionist. High expectations.

I don’t want to just take anything that comes. It has to be something I love doing. If I do what I love, money will follow. It’s nice to get paid for being happy.

So, let’s see where will this lead me…If it’s meant, it will happen.

Happiness Is A Journey

Times are pretty tough, almost everywhere you go. A lot of people have put their trust in their goals, thinking, “If only I had this or that, I’d be happy.” They spend their time and effort all for that idea, and may even spend their entire lives trying to get things they think will make them happy.

Are you guilty? I am. *blushing*


I found this very inspiring post called “Happiness is a Journey”. I’m sure most if not all of you will find something to ponder on this post. Here’s an excerpt:

This perspective has helped me to see that there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way. So, treasure every moment that you have and treasure it more because you share it with someone special, special enough to spend your time with…and remember that time waits for no one.

Stop waiting until the weekend, when you can party or let loose. Until summer, spring, fall or winter until you find the right person and get married. Until you die, until you’re born again to decide that there is no better time than right now to be happy.

It talks about how happiness is not about getting or accomplishing something, although those things do make us happy. To her/him, happiness is really a choice we have to make, enjoying the trip more than the destination.

Well, that's something I knew already but it's nice to be reminded from time to time, right? Most of the times, we tend to forget the more important things. I'm trying to apply this in my own journey (of life and happiness).

Click here to visit the complete entry.

Friends, enjoy the rest of the week! ☺

Gadgets + Accessories

iPod Shuffle
What’s new? Still in 1GB but is now available in 4 new colors (red, sea green, light blue and purple) aside from the orignal silver.

iPod Nano
The new Nano sports a totally different look with it’s square shape and 320x240 resolution display. Also covered in anodized aluminum, polished stainless steel and available in different colors.

4GB and 8GB are a little too small for videos, don’t you think?

iPod Classic
Completely new, thinner and all-metal design. Can hold up to 160GB worth of data. What more can you ask more?

iPod Touch
Phoneless iPhone! Pretty much that’s what it is! Multi-touch interface, 3.5 inch of widescreen display and Wi-Fi web browsing.

iPhone
Need I say more? =D

Source and images: Apple

*****

I didn’t know LeSportsac (one of my fave brands) came out with gadget accessories and it is much cheaper than my first pick, which is Juicy Couture.

LeSportsac laptop sleeves retail at $34




Juicy Couture laptop case retails at $95


Juicy Couture Velour laptop case
Was: $75
Now: $19


Which one do you like? *beams*

source and images: Neiman Marcus and LeSportsac

One Soul

Happy Birthday Mama Mary!

Heard mass with the whole family today (my 2nd family *wink*). I can’t remember the last time we were complete. I’m glad it happened today.

During and after the mass, I felt this peculiar hunch that I couldn’t explain. When I got home, the feeling didn’t go. I knew it; HE wanted me to break my silence…

For the past weeks (can’t remember when actually, I’m so bad on dates and numbers…) something happened (not to me though) but I/we remained silent for the reason that I am/we are not part of the situation and I/we don’t have the right to meddle with these people. Days passed, nobody dared to ask me/us so I/we thought to be in hushed is fine. Which is ok. It's their issue/s not mine/us anyway. That's very clear.

As I write this, thoughts are starting to spill out. Answers to my questions…

There’s one soul out there who is hurting, lost, so undecided and longing for the hardest thing to get --- happiness. And here I am, doing nothing. Whew! This is strange, I know. But I feel I’ve been poked to talk to this person. Hard, I admit. Because we never had the chance to know each other thoroughly and be “good friends” (as how I treat my other friends). Honestly, I don’t know much about this person, just the basics. I stay distant and I have my reasons. This person might not believe me or might find me weird *haha* and insincere. Well, that would be his/her call and my risk.

Sometimes the hardest things are the ones that are really worth doing.

I always say that I want REAL and HONEST people because I am one. I am not plastic, I speak my mind. Oftentimes, too straight to the point others find me so strong and they tend to take it against me. I'm sorry that's me. Nobody can change that as I can't change anybody.

I’m blessed (in some ways) and HE wanted me to share and pay it forward. Thy will be done. Ok, I’m taking the risk. I don’t know how this person will take this or what might happen (to us) after. I will leave it all to HIM.

One thing is definite --- My intention is good and I care.

Inhye Choi a.k.a. KATE

Kate is my one and only Korean friend. We were not formally introduced and the first time we met was in a very unwieldy situation. I was in a meeting with Mr. Shim, our CEO and we were talking about sales figures. He was in fact interrogating me that time and I was very confident about my figures vs. his. After that, he asked Kate to join us then I knew she was the one who did the report that Mr. Shim was holding and the printer sales figures were all screwed up! *slaps forehead* We smiled at each other.

I didn’t thought that that meeting would be a start of good friendship and the rest is history. It’s nice to have Kate as a friend. She maybe demanding at times err most of the times *peace Kate* but I understand, it’s a very typical Korean trait. I'm used to it. What’s good about her is she is sweet and very childlike (like me and Lizzy) so we all clicked! Haha.

Now that we don’t see each other that often, we always make it a point to update each other even in a simplest way like SMS or MMS. Which reminded me...she texted to inform me that she had her hair done again and sent me a MMS.

Here you go… Kate on her new hair stlye


Isn’t she cute? She is so kikay and Lizzy and I love her so much. Oh, I miss ‘em both. I’m looking forward on our next meeting.

P.S. Kate, I’m sorry if I published your photo here, I had to (see title of this blog, haha). This might be a start of your startdom *just kidding* Mwah!

Freaky Friday + Poll Results #1 (cups of coffee)

Oh my gawd! What’s happening to Mother Earth? *phbbbbt* It’s so humid! I turned the air conditioner and 2 fans on and yet I can still feel the heat! Argh! I hurried to the bathroom and had a quick shower. It helped, somehow.

Anyhow, I noticed just now my 1st poll has closed. Hmm, let me see *thinking*, okay… I better end this quick so I can start making a new poll for you guys. But before I go, let me give you a run down of the results ok?

1st Poll: How many cups of coffee do you take per day?

Results:

59% --- 1 cup
9% --- 2 cups
9% --- 3 cups or more!
22% --- I don’t drink coffee

For those who have taken part on this poll, BIG thanks to you guys! *mwah*

Happy Weekend! ☺

P.S. No multiple voting, sorry.

Wishin' and Hopin'

It’s past 2AM and I’m alone in the room, in front of my Macbook with my TV tuned in CNN. Suddenly, memories dawned on me…

I remember the days I travel ALONE for business, in a very spacious hotel room either with my iBook or with a good book to read (exactly the same scenario now, except for the humongous room/hotel *haha*) to make my eyes heavy enough to go to deep slumber. This was before I discovered Badger Sleep Balm.

I usually turn on my TV in CNN or Channel News Asia for some reasons --- to serve as my light, (I turn off all lights except in the bathroom), sound (I hate total silence), for me to be in the know (as much as possible) and the reporters’ low and slow voices make me fall asleep easily.

Hearing CNN now, makes me feel I am out of the country (and sleepy!). I realized I miss traveling! *teehee* I’m looking forward on a great vacation (read: with some friends and NOT alone) soon. Somewhere I haven’t been to…Hmm, let me think and let me check my bank account. *guffaw*

Good night! *yawn*

Who doesn’t love Derek a.k.a. McDreamy and Meredith? Come on, raise your hands! *hahaha*

I’m finding time to finish season 2 (but I can’t, I’m always out) so I can proceed to the next one. I can’t wait to see season 3. Most people say it’s the best among the 3.

If you’re someone close to me, you probably know that I don’t watch hardcore actions and horror movies. It makes me sick seeing too much blood, fresh wounds and people being killed. I don’t like violence (and horror) in any form.

Watching Grey’s Anatomy is something very new to me. I’ve always wanted to conquer my fear/s, not abruptly though. Xave was truly surprised to see some episodes and me covering my eyes every time there are medical procedures being done. I got a few laughs from him, believe me. *heehee* Seeing BLOOD, people being operated and dying --- I’m getting used to it. I don’t want to deprive myself on some REALITIES in life. I’ve seen internal organs (liver, heart, and others that I couldn't identify anymore however guessing) in one of their episodes as well. I was shrieking! Unforgettable.

Sooner or later, I will bear a child (yes, I want children). I must prepare myself, right? This is one of my ways. It might seem shallow for some, big achievement for me. I fear hospitals, I was never confined yet in this life time (I hope not).

Anyhow, here are some random lines on PAIN (from GA) that struck me.

Dr. Bailey (talking to Derek): “It’s not hard, it’s painful. It’s not hard. You know what to do already. If you didn’t, you wouldn’t be in so much pain.”

Meredith:

“PAIN, you just have to write it out. Hope it goes away on its own. Hope the wound that caused it heals.”

“There are no solutions, no easy answers. You just breathe deep and wait for it to subside.”

“Most of the time, pain can be managed. But sometimes, the pain gets you when you least expect it.”

“Pain, you just have to fly through because the truth is, you can’t outrun it and life makes more.”

Awwww....

My Lastest Fixation

For the past days, I’ve been so into Facebook. *heehee* For the longest time, I’ve been receiving invites however, I keep on ignoring them. One boring day, I finally decided to sign in but immediately logged off. I didn’t explore. Then, I realized, why not?

Friendster has been so communal already. A lot of people I do not know keep adding me up. *sorry folks* I hate to decline but as much as possible I want to keep my profile in private for my friends only. Friends meaning people I personally know and not just connected to me or to my other friends. Got it? *big grin*

So now, I’ve decided to take a plunge and here’s my Facebook badge.



If you happen to be in Facebook and we personally know each other feel free to add me up. And let’s have a food fight, throw me some drinks or perhaps write on my fun wall. *wink* The gifts, hugs, emotes, kisses, questions --- I want ‘em all!

Join now!

Exquisite

OMG, OMG, O-M-G!!! I couldn’t believe what just happened. (9.3.07 @ 10:45pm)

DP and I had a “heart to heart” talk. *almost 3 hours I think* It was like a father and daughter talking to each other. Suddenly, I miss my Daddy. It was my first time to have a serious conversation with him and A was our witness. *heehee* Thank God, A was there otherwise, I might have collapsed!

In the beginning, I thought he was just concerned about the condo he’s planning to buy and was waiting for my update. I was tasked to take care of the negotiations with the broker. I did update him. Well, that’s another story.

Afterwards, *maybe 30 minutes after* he was looking for me again. He took a seat near the computer table over a cup of tea. While me and A on the sofa busy with our Macbooks. Then he started talking again. This time, it was intense and very personal. He blurted out all what’s inside him --- His happiness, frustrations, worries, hopes, plans and feelings towards us. Things I never thought he’d tell me. I was in absolute shock! --- Am I the right person to hear all these? Why am I here without X? Honestly, I didn’t know how to handle the situation. I did the safest thing to do --- listen.

DP is a type of person who is tough, reserved, moody, deep and everybody tends to be aloof on him even his sons and daughter. We see him like a “weather”, always changing, very unpredictable. Reason why I always feel uneasy and distant (if I may call it that way) talking to him. People tend to misinterpret him.

Today changed everything.

I realized that he is a typical father like everyone else who lives and works hard for his family and loved ones, will do anything and everything to make them happy even to the point of sacrificing his own interests. He simply wants the best for his family. I’m lucky to discover that soft side of DP. I was actually touched. I really can’t help but shed tears on the things he is sharing with me and the reasons why he decided to impart these with me.

The way I see him, he seems to be a little stressed due to too much worrying about his family specially his children. He wanted to see his two sons be stable before he losses his breath. Morbid as it is but that is a reality. I feel for him and I feel for his family because I (we) lost my (our) Daddy long time ago and it was so sudden. So, I totally understand where is he coming from. He wanted everyone to be prepared and can stand on their own even without his presence. So he can go in peace. Seriously, this gave me goosebumps! Reality bites. I pray to God to give him loooooog life so we can spend more time with him.

He was emotional and vocal with his feelings. I can't remember how many times he said he loves us very much. He also said very nice words and compliments about me. Wow! *Me and A were controlling our tears, hahaha* It’s like my Daddy reincarnated in him and is in front of me talking. Incredible. Unexplainable.

He mentioned about the W thing. I was stunned. He said he couldn’t wait any longer. He’s so eager to know our plans (which in fact, no concrete one yet and tends to be our least priority). Somehow I felt he wanted to align his plans with ours because that event would create a big change on all of us (including them, of course). The very exact thing my Mommy told me.

It’s hard to narrate our entire conversation here in detail because we have discussed a lot! Some of them, I want to keep to myself (and X).

As I write this, my heart is still beating fast. Today is unforgettable. I would like to think that Daddy sent an angel and touched DP’s heart and mind which made this day happen.

Puzzle pieces forming together in front of my face. Whoa!

Forgive and Forget

FORGIVE and FORGET.

I’ve heard and been told this line several times in this lifetime. How many of us find it so much easier to do the former than the latter? Forgiving doesn’t mean forgetting, right? Forgetting is tough.

Forgiving is a way for a person to let go and start moving on. Thus, allowing herself/himself to eventually heal. It’s a gift we should give ourselves NOT the person who caused us pain. By forgiving, we decide to live in the present and not in the past.

Forgiving doesn’t always mean resuming a relationship with whoever has caused you pain. If a person won’t meet you halfway or has been abusive it may be healthier to forgive simply to make your life less stressful and taxing but continue to keep your distance. That way, you can guard yourself but still reap the benefits.

It’s always heartbreaking and unfortunate when you experience being hurt by someone you thought was the last person to do so. You find yourself in absolute shock, trying to comprehend where it’s all coming from and why you are being targeted. But after a while, it sinks in and you start to take the proper route by empathizing with that person who obviously has a lot of personal issues to deal with and you happen to be at the wrong place and time. It is at this point where you first consider the possibility of forgiveness.

There are some relationships that need to be either put on hold or completely tainted, after a conflict takes place. In order to protect ourselves from possibly getting hurt again, we decide to set boundaries. Better safe than sorry. *if you ask me*

Distance, as they say, is not always a bad thing. In some cases, distance is the key to forgetting don’t you think?

Opportunity Knocks Only Once? Nah!

I’ve been so busy, my schedule has been so hectic lately and I can hardly blog. I used to stay home say, 4 to 5 consecutive days but this time, I can’t remember staying in bed in front of my Macbook for a whole day. *guffaw* Maybe it’s one for the reasons why I got sick. Nothing serious though, just a running nose, sore throat, headache and some dizziness. I don’t like feeling unwell.

So, what’s keeping this bum lady busy? *heehee*

A couple of days back or so, I had an interview for a post I wasn’t aware of. *hahaha* I like the company though. It’s a consumer industry (multi-national company) known for its cosmetics. I’ve been wanting to shift from I.T. to consumer industry for the longest time already but I always end up being in I.T. which is still fine with me. I wanted to think that this might be a big break for me.

So here’s what happened…pardon me, for my long narration.

My appointment with Ms. Manager was at 11am, I was there 10:45am. I waited, and waited some more. I glanced at my watch, 12noon and I was still in the sofa (lobby) waiting! I wanted to go down the building and just leave. *See, I don’t have the patience to wait.* However, this Mr. Senior asked me to go inside for a “preliminary” interview *whatsoever* It was so ghastly! I was turned off.

How on earth will this “multi-national” company allow this Mr. Senior to talk to me or any candidate for that matter empty handed and unaware of the reason why I was there? *stupid eh?* He wasn’t ready at all. Argh! What’s even worst, he asked me to go back after lunch for the next interview (with Ms. Manager). What a waste of time! Honestly, I told Xave I don’t wanna go back anymore. But he insisted that I have to finish the scheduled interview and I have to be professional.

Que horror! My next interview was at quarter to seven and ran for like 15 minutes only. *Imagine how long I waited. Unbelievable.* Anyway, I cut the interview short. Why?

First, she likes me already. I am getting the job however, I strongly feel the post is not for me. My heart and mind was actually debating. (1) should I tell her that I prefer something else or (2) just let the meeting end and ignore the succeeding calls. Me being an outspoken person, (as expected by everyone) I blurted out my thoughts.

I’d be more effective if I’d be handling/managing a product, (colors, fragrance or skincare are my choices). I’m a people person (I love to interact with different people), I’m creative, imaginative, analytical and it’s my passion to do marketing in all aspects (specially making programs/promotions). To be “behind the scene” and doing the “leg work” are not my thing. I’ve done forecasting/demand planning in Samsung. It’s very tedious. Oftentimes, I had to go to the office on weekends just to encode the figures in our system before it closes. Torture. Been there, done that. I barely have time for myself or even pay a visit to my derma and to the salon.

I can do the job, and I know I would do well but it’s just not my forte. Accepting the job is like getting a hammer to hit my head. I’m a type of person that I have to love or at least like what I am doing for me to make time for it. I know myself very well.

Second, usually in interviews like this it is not only the interviewer that observes the applicant. The candidate scrutinizes the interviewer as well like what I did. Ms. Manager making me wait for that long (almost 6 hours) reflected her being not able to manage her time very well. I had an appointment and yet, she was engrossed with what she was doing that time. I did some interviews to applicants as well. Some were even walk-ins and I never made them wait even for 10mins. I never asked them to come back some other time because I have a meeting. I do step out of the meeting to talk to these people. *it won’t take much of my time anyway* I’m sensitive on how others may feel. I know how applicants prepare for their interviews. The effort of going to the venue is enough for me to make time for them, right? Tsk, I just can’t understand why some people are so insensitive. From there, I know Ms. Manager will not make a good boss. Furthermore, I can’t imagine myself working harmoniously with her. I knew I had to let this pass.

Leaving the building made me feel good because I know I did the right thing. I said my piece. I was courageous enough to speak my mind and that gave me peace of mind.

In my next job, my priority is to have work-life balance. They say, "opportunity knocks only once". For me, it depends. If you know what you want certainly, better opportunities will come your way and you'd know if the one in front of you is "the one".

At the end of that day, it's still your choice.

It's past 3am, I need a shut eye.

Ciao!